Why People Leave Organisations

The emotional organisation behind EDI’s disappointing results

An exciting and rewarding opportunity to join our diverse workforce where your skills and experience will make you a valued member of our team.”

The recruitment pack goes further. It describes the organisation’s commitment to Equality, Diversity and Inclusion. There are strategies, policies, procedures, targets and action plans. It promises a workplace where everyone belongs.

Everything the advert says is true.

And yet, for many employees, it doesn’t turn out to be true in practice.

Few organisations have invested more time, money and effort in EDI. Yet many still struggle to recruit a workforce that reflects the communities they serve. Ethnic minority employees remain underrepresented in senior roles. In many organisations they are more likely to leave and more likely to face disciplinary action than their White colleagues.

The usual explanations are familiar: unconscious bias, poor interviewing, weak people management and ineffective leadership. All may play a part. But they don’t explain why organisations with genuine commitment, detailed strategies and determined leaders still produce disappointing results.

Middle managers recognise the pattern because they see it every day.

A new recruit arrives full of optimism. They believe the promises made during recruitment and expect to be judged on their contribution. At first everything seems fine. Then small things begin to happen. Someone with less experience is offered an opportunity they are not. Their ideas receive little attention until someone else repeats them. Credit for success quietly migrates elsewhere. Promotion decisions become harder to understand.

No single incident proves discrimination.

But together they tell a story.

Confusion becomes self-doubt. Self-doubt becomes disappointment. Disappointment erodes trust. Each new experience is interpreted through the last one. Eventually disappointment becomes resentment.

Then they leave.

The organisation records another resignation. The exit interview may mention career development or a better opportunity elsewhere. The formal explanation sounds perfectly reasonable.

But it isn’t the whole story.

Every organisation contains two organisations.

There is the formal organisation. It consists of structures, strategies, policies, procedures, budgets and performance indicators. This is where the EDI strategy lives.

Alongside it sits another organisation that rarely appears on an organisation chart.

The emotional organisation.

This is where hope, trust, belonging, recognition, resentment and memory shape behaviour. It is where people decide whether they are valued, whether they are treated fairly and whether they truly belong.

EDI strategies belong to the formal organisation.

Inclusion succeeds or fails in the emotional organisation.

This is not an argument that organisations lack commitment or that managers are deliberately discriminatory. Most senior leaders genuinely want diverse teams and fair opportunities. Their commitment is real. The problem is that informal loyalties, assumptions, habits and long-established ways of working can quietly undermine formal intentions. Without anyone intending it, the emotional organisation starts pulling in a different direction from the formal one.

Middle managers live in both organisations. They attend meetings where EDI targets are reviewed. They also hear the conversations that never appear in the minutes. They watch talented people gradually lose confidence. They see the gap between what the organisation promises and what some employees actually experience.

Every organisation wants to be judged by its values, its policies and its strategy.

Employees judge it differently.

They judge it by whether they feel trusted, recognised, respected and included.

People join organisations because of what the formal organisation promises.

They leave because of what the emotional organisation delivers.

Managers who understand both organisations have a far better chance of creating genuine inclusion than those who manage only the one they can see.

blairmcpherson.co.uk 


 

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